RAPE, CONSENSUAL SEX & ME TOO OVER THE YEARS & TODAY :

India is the fourth leading country in the World in Rape Crime . No doubt advanced countries like U.S.A, South Africa , Sweden are ahead of India in this crime . There again over 95 % of the victims are women . But the encouraging fact is that the conviction rate in India is higher than developed countries, such as the United Kingdom, which recorded a conviction rate of 7% in 2011-12. The conviction rate as low as 10% in Sweden against 27 % in India.

Rape has its own Laws in IPC 377 & like wise Sexual Assault 375, 376, 354 . No doubt 95 % victims are women , and mostly poor and from lower strata . It is difficult for these victims to file an FIR immediately for several reasons. So they need sufficient time to gather confidence and strength .
Consensual sex ,that happens with mutual consent with both partners except Minors .

But the educated who undergo Sexual Harassment cases in work places should report the matter as early as possible . There will be fresh evidence and bring the offender to book . Now there is no need for the victim leave the company , can be transferred and hold on to the Job . This empowerment should be enough.

THAT WILL PUT A CHECK ON THE VULTURES TO GO ANY FURTHER WITH OTHERS FOR THE NEXT DECADE AS HE KEEPS GROWING IN CAREER STATURE AND CONTACTS MORE SUCH WOMEN .

By then the alleged offender becomes a big man in the society , even Nobel price winner , working in U.N. , becoming a Minister , or even President of the Nation when the offended hasn't risen to that extent .

The victim shouldn't wait till the benefits and perks after the the episode , should approach women's organizations or appropriate authorities. I don't think they should wait for years before reporting . Otherwise it becomes consensual sex.Court on 6 September 2018 which stated all consensual sexual acts between adults who have met the age of consent are not violative of Section 377.

THERE SHOULD BE NO CASES AS THAT OF ISRO SCIENTIST NAMBI NARAYANAN . more  

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So crux of the issue is clever/intelligent on both sides men or women are successful in cheating others so it is not law but clever move wins then it may be in family, house, job or courts more  
The issues of unlawful/illegal Sex, issues of Rape, pleading for divorce, cohabitation to select the life partner, and all such and now, this mee too ; if thought together at once , some campaign is going one in a systematic plan to lead the Country accept Consent, Connivance, Divorce at ease and permit even the issue of MARITAL RAPE that arose 2 years back . more  
I think IPC 176 is for rape cases and IPC 177 for sexual assault (unnatural sex & sex between two people of the same sex), which has recently been removed by the Supreme Court from the Penal Code making marriage between two adults of the same sex legal. Your statistics regarding conviction of the guilty of rape cases are 7 years old. What is the present position, particularly, after the 'Nirvoya' incident and making the respective laws more stringent with provisions for death penalty? I am of the opinion that comparing with number of incidents country-wise would not show the real state of affairs in the matter. To arrive at the actual position, both, the number of population as also number of incidents should be taken into account. If it was done in the instant cases, which is not made clear, then its ok. Rape cases are now reported daily from different corners of the country, as if there has been sudden spurt in such incidents though the fact is not such. In fact, even a decade ago the rape victims were rarely reporting their sufferings to police for justice and/or to the society mainly for two reasons: (1) the victims (women) were unable to stand before the defence lawyers, who were being permitted by the courts to go to any extent to humiliate the victims, defame them and tarnish their reputation in the name of finding out the truth. With the result, the victims used to completely give up allowing the defence counsel to derive benefit of doubt for the accused. (2) Even though the victims were not on fault or guilty for the incidents in any way, they were being abused by the societies and even by their parents in many cases making their lives hell for ever. Getting them married was quite difficult due to lack of broad minded grooms in our country. The situation is now just reverse encouraging people (women) to fearlessly come out with the incidents of sexual harassment meted out to them, which caused sudden artificial spurt in such incidents. The antecedent episodes of so called sexual harassment now reported after decades have lost their importance by themselves raising the question as to what compelled the so called victims to keep quite for such a long time. Were they fearing conflict of their own interests or were in the wait for more and more achievements and disappointments in their goals had encouraged them to come out now with their stories of sufferings? Before we reach to any conclusion in these cases, we must think on these points. more  
All of us are of the opinion that so called sexual harassment is actually No harassment, but begin with the consent only. I am not talking about the Hard core criminal or minor assaults, but the so called working women are not so innocent that a sexual harassment may be there. In want of any priority they may initiate pushing the sentiments towards the sexual invitation and that depends on the result whether it will be end in criminal or consensual act. If the man starts this she can complaint at very early stage. But there is both sweet and money at the moment hence it will not be provoked if she found it in disfavored will be called molestation. No body in Indian society appreciating the MEE TOO, we are of the opinion that the faces, who have enjoyed the opportunities and fake socialist are making hue and cry. The ideal politicians are also getting time pass jobs. more  
Excessive intimacy coupled with pleasing manners also lead to illusive situation in the counterpart and to be curbed and controlled. Sexual harassment at workplaces indeed do not take place. If any opts, must be immediately retaliated . This practice eradicates any furtherance in the Society. more  
Law purposed both sex to wait and suppress for 5 to 7 years, the natural demand of hormones ; while curbed the law of licencing prostitution.Both are against to the prevalence of safe society. Widow marriages were promoted with social reform which had drastically reduced unlawful/ illegal Sex issues/Rapes. Even if Sex is allowed under Consent and Connivance, it definitely increase the issues of Sex harassment, Molestation and even Rapes. The safe system is to leave of the issue of marriage to the age that naturally tenders on account of energized hormones AND, allowing licensed Prostitution . more  
Mr Daniel, what kind of accuracy does the statistics of this kind and discipline had? Won't it be right to look for the statistics of Ministry of Home that is consolidated for the country with States wise breakup as the data of each State will vary very widely or at least that of the Women and Child Welfare ministry? more  
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