Time is required for change
Can't we give them enough time & support to change the things in a correct manner.
Below are some domestic points which came in mind and would like to share. Sorry since it might seem silly, but please reconsider.
1) Do you start planning finances for your daughter's/sister's wedding or your retirement just before 1 year of date. A real NO, we take 20 years to plan a single event.
2) If a 23 year inexperienced boy criticise your 50+ years father, will you expect that your father should start concentrating on him and start answering him in stead of managing daily routine and your family. Even (people) you should understand the situation and act accordingly.
3) You couldn't manage your responsibilities in a span of 60 days and you expect your own brother to handle the situation and change within 1 day.
4) I would suggest the individual to please have a day on yours and check whether the the security guard on your gate has taken his sleep properly before being on duty so he is fit to guard. Do we really check whether the girl of your maid is attending a school. If we can't then we really can't guide anyone how to do what.
No intention to hurt anyone's thoughts & views. more